Conflicting Thoughts: A Dialogue
In our daily lives, we often find ourselves grappling with conflicting thoughts. Whether it’s about making a tough decision, dealing with a difficult situation, or simply trying to make sense of the world around us, conflicting thoughts can be a source of both mental anguish and profound insight. This dialogue explores the experience of conflicting thoughts and how we can navigate them in a constructive way.
Person A: I find myself constantly torn between two conflicting thoughts. It’s as if my mind is in a constant battle, and I can never seem to come to a resolution.
Person B: I know what you mean. It’s like having two opposing forces pulling at you from both sides, and it can be exhausting trying to make sense of it all.
Person A: Exactly! It’s like part of me wants to take a risk and pursue something new and exciting, while the other part is holding me back, warning me of the potential risks and failures.
Person B: I think that’s completely natural. We’re all complex beings with a multitude of thoughts and emotions swirling around inside us. It’s not uncommon to experience conflicting thoughts when trying to make a decision or weigh the pros and cons of a situation.
Person A: But how do we navigate this internal conflict? How do we make sense of it all and come to a decision that feels right?
Person B: I believe the key is to acknowledge and accept these conflicting thoughts as a natural part of the human experience. Instead of trying to suppress or ignore them, we should embrace them and explore the reasons behind each conflicting thought.
Person A: That’s an interesting perspective. So, you’re saying we should give equal consideration to both conflicting thoughts and try to understand why they exist in the first place?
Person B: Exactly. By understanding the underlying motivations and fears behind each conflicting thought, we can gain a deeper insight into our own desires and fears. This can ultimately help us make more informed and balanced decisions.
Person A: I can see the value in that. It’s about finding a sense of harmony within ourselves, even when faced with conflicting thoughts. It’s about recognizing that both sides have validity and can offer valuable insights into our own psyche.
Person B: Precisely. And once we start to see conflicting thoughts as opportunities for personal growth and self-discovery, it becomes easier to navigate them in a constructive way.
Person A: I feel like I have a better understanding of how to approach conflicting thoughts now. Instead of viewing them as a burden, I can see them as a chance to learn more about myself and ultimately make decisions that align with my true desires and values.
Person B: I’m glad to hear that. It’s an ongoing process, and we’ll undoubtedly continue to face conflicting thoughts in the future. But by approaching them with an open mind and a willingness to learn, we can turn internal conflict into a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery.
In conclusion, conflicting thoughts are a natural part of the human experience. However, by approaching them with an open mind and a willingness to explore their underlying motivations, we can gain valuable insights into our own desires and fears. This can ultimately help us make more informed and balanced decisions, leading to a greater sense of self-understanding and personal growth.
Conflicting Thoughts(A dialogue)
A.T: Where do I start from with your type of women
A.T: Let me guess you’ve been soaked in the anointing or bestowment of righteousness,
So to say
A.T: I don’t still get it…
A.T: Boys have the innate nature to fall endlessly and girls have the innate nature to put boys on hold.
I really wish God switched the roles here
Oh how good it would feel for 2 to 3 girls to be begging for my attention
I don’t think you get it,
Yes your heart is supposed to be guided, yes you’re supposed to be discreet and disciplined
But to what end is all this
And From what beginning was it in the first place
Y’all don’t know you scare of people who are trying to grasp the contents of love.
No matter how intentional the person gets the harder it is for your type of person to open up
At the end of the day,
All is lost,
All in the name of this is the right way to do things.
You never get to explore your desires,
You don’t even know what it means to be loved according to your own terms.
Don’t go about talking about the damping of amplitude
So because you decide to show love to someone, you lose essence in God?
What’s this world turning to?
The only way I know how to tell you I love you is considered immoral. So he has to play according to her terms and wait according to her terms to have someone I love?
How one sided is your view!!!
I wish God had put the innate nature of searching for someone to lean on in women.
I guess the story won’t be the same🙂🤌
Ofofo❤️: Well
Ofofo❤️: Everyone has a right to their opinion.
Ofofo❤️: My point is this…. don’t deceive yourself in any case at all.
Check and recheck your motives for everything.
Know what works for you.
Ofofo❤️: In being self disciplined, be careful not to hurt others when not necessary
A.T: Even if it’s blasphemous?😏
A.T: If you say so sha
A.T: What if my motive is me wanting to kiss the person,
What is wrong?
What is right?
Why are there different ideas to right and wrong?
And various spectrums….
Ofofo❤️: Blasphemy you say???
A.T: Not in that context per say
But you don’t speak for all
You speak for what you stand for
What you’ve understood so far
Not what it really is
Ofofo❤️: When you understand… you’ll understand
Buh it’s fine
A.T: Tell that to the all the girls I know 😂
A.T: Nah bro,
A.T: Explain!
A.T: How would you give someone greenlight and then flash red
A.T: How do I show affection then?
Ofofo❤️: I said wah I said.
A.T: Okay
A.T: There’s no changing to your ideals is there?
Ofofo❤️: The truth is you don’t need all these affections now….
No doubt, they are real, they come, but you have to ward off them….focus on your future.
A.T: But seriously
Not every boy would be as intentional as someone you could possibly come across,
Never ruin his motives with your ideals.
Most of us generally,
Are on a quest for love
And people like you won’t understand because of your innate nature as well.
If you want to write up anything at all,
Take notes of the 2 sides of the coin.
Ofofo❤️: All these are mere distractions.
From primary school to where you are now…there were seasons for different pps…
This is just showing how temporary it is
A.T: What future ?😂
Like I said,
Your ideals.
And you said what you said right
So just stand in that part till it dawns on you
Ofofo❤️: I understand your view completely…
Ofofo❤️: Why would you be on a quest for love at this age?????
Are you emotionally mature for what love entails????
Ofofo❤️: I pray you’ll understand someday honestly
A.T: That’s life in general
The fact that you meet another new person in another regiment of your life doesn’t change the fact that those old ones are long gone
Fine you don’t talk to them,
Fine it’s in the past,
But there’s the moment
Something you’d cherish even if the person was no more
Out of all the obscurity of life and total meaninglessness.
These little events and people make up who we turn out to be.
Ofofo❤️: I get you….moments with people are cherishing honestly….
Ofofo❤️: That’s why there’s time for everything, time for studies, time to hang out….
Buh in all these take caution
Ofofo❤️: I’ve had beautiful memories with peeps
…..I didn’t say don’t make friends, but be careful,
Simple.
A.T: Hell yeah I’m mature
In age
In coming to terms with okay I’m sticking to one person
Are you 17/16😏
Skip age
Have you ever wished to have someone till death do you apart, no?
Try giving any of your male friends attention and see how lonely and loyal men are.
Have you heard of this term,
“A good girl that’s bad for me.”
I don’t think girls can embody that saying.
Ofofo❤️: Okay then.
A.T: Caution it is sha,
But time and seasons
They’re influences of our choices and fate
You can make time for someone
And yet that someone would be a great improving factor
And as you said
Time for studies, what’s stopping you from dragging him to the library or reading with the person,
Or any little academic help.
Ofofo❤️: Hmmmm
Okay
A.T: I wish I can see in your light honestly
But I wish more you be in my light
Get to understand that it’s no crime to love
Love could be a very strong word, yes! But still the only reason you won’t accept it is cause you’re not ready to settle down.
That concept of time and seasons and different people.
If you set your mind to something
You’ll get it innit?
Ofofo❤️: Well…Okay
Ofofo❤️: Sorry…I’m outta words actually.
A.T : Aiit.
Ofofo❤️: Gatta go, bye!